Our world is filled with victimization.
Turn around and you’ll find them; victims of circumstances. They’re everywhere, victims of rape, birth, war, etc. Individuals, whose lives have been marred and scarred with one agonising experience or the other.
I’ve been one of them, hence i know how it feels.
I know how it feels when someone out there victimize you and you find yourself incapable of doing anything to defend you.
Such times when you put in your very best in that endeavour, only to be disappointed because you ain’t got no one at the top, such times when every one will nickname you (failure because you’re yet to get to where they have been), i have seen the mighty victimize and deceive the weak who cry their heart out everyday, for revenge yet getting none, they curse and hate.
But come to think of it, is personal revenge really worth it? Why not allow the law of nemesis?
I know, Living with the mindset of a victim is demoralizing. The hatred you constantly hold against those who victimized you is such that can stop you from ever forgetting the experience.
It is accepted you’ve been scarred,(sometimes for the rest of your life) but, must you forever nurse that wound? I think you need a break from thoughts of that horrible experience. You need to free your mind of these, and to free your mind, you must FORGIVE and let go this past.
Honestly, i know it’s not so easy taking this decision but, for your own good, i think you need do as i did. You must let go, so time can heal the wounds.